Showing posts with label burdens. Show all posts
Showing posts with label burdens. Show all posts

Friday, 14 June 2024

MY BIGGEST BURDENS AND WHAT YOU CAN LEARN FROM THEM


A burden is something that weighs on you. You could be burdened emotionally because of a relationship that is weighing on you. You could be burdened psychologically because of the weight of a looming deadline. You could be burdened spiritually because of the weight of guilt you are carrying. You could be burdened physically because of your weight and depleted strength. We all carry burdens. There are seasons in our life where some burdens are big and you do not feel that you will be able to bear up under the enormous pressure you are under. Those seasons will pass. For those in leadership there is the constant burden of the weight of responsibility that must be carried. (Have you ever noticed what this kind of burden bearing does physically to a President or Prime Minister over their term in office?) In the Bible we read that GOD actually gives people burdens so that they become stronger, wealthier, happier, and more productive. These types of burdens always involve caring for others. (Have you ever considered why Jesus was sweating great drops of blood as He was praying just before He went to the Cross via His hours of humiliating pummelling, beating, scourging, hair-pulling, and mockery?) I want to share with you why I am now carrying an enormous burden that I would consider the biggest burden I have ever had to carry. I do so in the hope that this might help you to bear your burdens with greater expertise and joy. Yes, joy.

Look to Jesus, the Founder and Perfecter of our faith,
who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross,
despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God.
Hebrews 12:2


BURDEN BEARING PRINCIPLE #1 – BE YOKED

The Epistle to the Hebrews was probably written around AD 63. Within a few months, into AD 64, a bloody and a deadly persecution against thousands upon thousands of Christians around the Roman Empire would break out. In preparation for their possible martyrdom, the writer encourages the Hebrew believers to remember Christ in His sweating-blood moment of passion who was in that moment carrying the burden of the world’s sins all the way to the Cross. The writer’s insight into Christ’s burden-bearing moment was that His burden was co-carried by the other members of the Trinity. Here is the first principle of burden bearing: Be yoked to Christ (Matt. 11:29). That is, as the writer of to the Hebrews said – Look to Jesus for the help you need to be able to carry your burden. As I am now labouring under the biggest burden I have ever carried, I am looking to Jesus and walking yoked to Him.

 

BURDEN BEARING PRINCIPLE #2 – SEEK FIRST THINGS FIRST

In Christ’s famous Sermon on the Mount, Jesus gave the ultimate set of success principles for the spiritual life. He then summed them all up with this principle: Seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these things [which you worry about] will be taken care of for you by your Heavenly Father (Matt. 6:33). When you stop, get quiet, turn off your interruptions, and take up GOD’s Word to thoughtfully and prayerfully read it, you are seeking first the Kingdom of God in your life. As Kate Smith tells new Christians, at least treat the Bible like you would with Tolkien’s Lord of the Rings. No one would open up The Lord of the Rings to a random page and read a few sentences and then close it. They wouldn’t pick it up a few days or weeks later, open to another random page and read a few more sentences then close the book and continue this pattern for a few more weeks and expect to understand the story! Yet, many Christians treat their Bibles like this. At least start at Genesis 1:1 and read a 3 or 4 chapters a day until you get to the end of Genesis 50. Then go to Matthew 1:1 and read 3 or 4 chapters a day until you get to John 21:25. What you will discover, perhaps much to your surprise, is that the Bible is a story just as – if not more – riveting as The Lord of the Rings! And, when you are about to read your 3 or 4 chapters a day, pray this prayer: Lord God, please speak to me through Your WordAmen. And after you have read your 3 or 4 chapters a day, pray this prayer:  Thank You Father for Your Word. Help me to understand and obey it. Amen. Here is the second principle for burden bearing: Seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness in your life. As I now bear my biggest burden, I am daily and moment by moment seeking first the Kingdom of God.

 

BURDEN BEARING PRINCIPLE #3 – PRAY WITHOUT CEASING

Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances;
for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.
Do not quench the Spirit. Do not despise prophecies
First Thessalonians 5:16-20

As I have discovered, bigger burdens require bigger prayers. Bigger prayers are not necessarily long prayers. Bigger prayers are thankful heartfelt prayers to God seeking His will to be done and interspersed with our humble requests.

Do not be anxious about anything,
but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving
let your requests be made known to God.
Philippians 4:6

Taking note of the apostle Paul’s words in First Corinthians 14:18, I thank God that I can pray in the Spirit in tongues. This enables me to pray in a way that the apostle Paul must have thought was very important. And here is the next principle for burden bearing: Pray, pray, pray. As I continue to strive to carry my biggest burden, this is what I am doing.

 

BURDEN BEARING PRINCIPLE #4 – BEAR ONE ANOTHER’S BURDENS

When Paul wrote to the Galatians, he told them their church was a family with people who were formally disconnected from each other due to race, language and culture. But now, in Christ, they were one family despite their status, gender, or ethnicity (Gal. 3:28). As a family, he concludes his epistle by telling them to bear one another’s burdens (Gal. 6:2). It’s too easy to get pre-occupied with our burdens and thereby neglect our poor brother or sister who is struggling with their own burdens which we might be able to alleviate.

There are burdens for other people that we who are “spiritual” (see Gal. 6:1 where Paul addresses those Christians who are “spiritual”) should simultaneously bear. Added to this, we should also have a burden to reach the lost; a burden to pray for our State and National leaders; and a burden to pray for our own families for their salvation. This is the fourth burden bearing principle: bear one another’s burdens and have a burden for others to know Christ. As I am staggering under the load of my biggest burden, this is something that I am pastorally and evangelistically undertaking to do.

 

MY BIGGEST BURDENS

For those who know me, you may suspect that my biggest burden is my failing health. It is not. You could expect that my biggest burden is what Kim and my future may hold as we conclude our pastoral ministry at Legana due to my health. It is not. You may consider that the PhD I am undertaking with Monash is my biggest burden. It is not. Perhaps you would reckon that my biggest burden is financial as Kim and I will soon be out of a job. It is not. Whatever my biggest burdens are, I know that being yoked to Christ as I seek first His kingdom, and pray without ceasing, that there will be no burden that can crush me as Paul’s principle in First Corinthians 10:13 depicts: 

No trial has overtaken you that is not faced by others. And God is faithful:
He will not let you be tried beyond what you are able to bear,
but with the trial will also provide a way out so that you may be able to endure it.
First Corinthians 10:13

My biggest burden is for you – our church, over which God had appointed me an overseer (1Peter 5:2) – and ensuring that I do not leave you as ‘orphans’. My biggest burden has been to ensure that a new pastor, a shepherd-hearted leader, who will love you, feed you, protect you, and grow you, will be appointed before I conclude my ministry among you. This is my ‘fatherly’ longing; this is my biggest burden. When the historians write the history of our church in four-hundred years, it is my hope that I will just be an entry in the long list of pastor-shepherds who have served God and His people here at Legana. And perhaps, just maybe perhaps, with each successive pastoral-leadership transition that a historian will discover a fleeting mention that with each of these transitions there was a supernatural weight of responsibility – a heavy burden – evident on each of the transitioning pastor’s shoulders as he passed the shepherd’s mantle onto his successor.

Your Pastor,

Andrew

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Friday, 15 June 2018

WHEN PROBLEMS ARE COMPLEX, SOLUTIONS ARE SIMPLE


WHEN PROBLEMS ARE COMPLEX, SOLUTIONS ARE SIMPLE

hydra-coinIt is a myth that complex problems require complex solutions! The problem with complex problems is when they involve you. Because when they do it feels like you are trying to deal with unrelated problem after unrelated problem while already dealing with a problem that you already just can’t deal with. This is why getting another perspective is often the first step to coming out of the fog. But someone might disagree with this because they feel they do have a different perspective of the most complex problems they are trying to solve because they are not ones not of their own making. This is especially the case when such complexities involve family or people we deeply care about. I’d like to offer some advice.
The God of peace will soon crush Satan under your feet. The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you.
Romans 16:20

PRINCIPLE #1 : THE HEART OF THE SERPENT

Hercules fighting HydraIn Greek Mythology, the giant serpent-like creature, Hydra, with its nine heads, had defeated all-comers. Then Hercules came along. Each of Hydra’s other opponents had been distracted by its multiple heads. Hercules, however, knew that if he attacked the heart of Hydra, he could defeat it. This is a great illustration of how to begin tackling what appears to be complex problems: nine-headed problems don’t always need nine solutions – often they can be solved with just one solution
For example, a business may be losing customers, struggling with cash-flow pressure, trying to manage demotivated staff, and complying with regulatory authorities. By tackling the heart of the problem, each of these symptoms of the real problem could be solved. Sometimes the real problem lies with the owner of the business neglecting their family which sets off a chain of events including grumpiness when they get to work which staff interpret as ungraciousness which causes them to treat customers poorly, which leads to a loss of sales which leads to a cash-flow crises. Jesus had something to say to such business-people about where they should focus their efforts.
But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things [that you are worrying about] will be added to you.
Matthew 6:33
And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’ The second is this: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no other commandment greater than these.”
Mark 12:30-31

PRINCIPLE #2 : STOP MAKING ASSUMPTIONS

stop-assumptionising01Complex problems always involve other people. These people could be the family members, friends, staff, colleagues, or leaders. People have a knack for letting others down. They also have a knack for letting themselves down! When trying to help someone else, don’t assume that they are already doing the basics. The thing I have noticed about great problem solvers who tackle complex problems is that they start with the basics. For example, up until the late 1800s it was common for pregnant women to die during child-birth. Medical scientists worked on all kinds of solutions with no success. The problem continued into the twentieth century until someone read a paper which Blaise Pascal had written addressing the problem. Pascal theorised that something we now call bacteria could be transmitted via unwashed hands into a skin breach on another person which could variously result in that person being infected by that bacteria. This bacterial infection, Pascal theorised, was the cause of so many women dying during child-birth. If doctors and assisting nurses would only wash their hands with soap and warm water, much the stop-Assumptionising03problem could be averted, Pascal claimed. But his ideas were rejected and mocked by the medical establishment. Not until someone read his paper in the early 20th century and decided to put his ideas to the test was Pascal proved right! From that point the numbers of women dying during child-birth plummeted! This complex problem was unnecessarily prolonged because people made some bad assumptions. Someone may be encountering financial pressure. Don’t assume that they have curbed their spending. Don’t assume that they are tithing (something that even secular financial gurus like Robert Kiyosaki strongly advice). Don’t assume they are exercising delayed-gratification.
¶ Put not your trust in princes, in a son of man, in whom there is no salvation.
Psalm 146:3

PRINCIPLE #3 : DON’T ACCEPT THE TRANSFER A PROBLEM’S OWNERSHIP

owning-anothers-problemsPeople with complex problems love to share ownership of their problems – and if you’ll let them, they’ll even transfer ownership of their problems to you! Parents of adult children are especially vulnerable to this illicit transfer of problem ownership.
They tie up heavy burdens, hard to bear, and lay them on people’s shoulders, but they themselves are not willing to move them with their finger.
Matthew 23:4
Of course, there are times when we can practically help someone dealing with a problem which is beyond them. God commands us to bear one another’s burdens (Gal. 6:2) – not own one another’s burdens. 

PRINCIPLE #4 : ACCEPT THE ULTIMATE OFFER OF HELP

We are meant to live dependently and inter-dependently. We are meant to be dependent upon God. We look to Him in prayer for help with each problem we face.
When the cares of my heart are many, your consolations cheer my soul.
Psalm 94:19
Not matter how complex our difficulties, He invites us to cast our cares onto Him – which may require us humbling ourselves.
¶ Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time He may exalt you, casting all your anxieties on Him, because He cares for you.
First Peter 5:6-7
Even if you feel that the problems you are facing are too complex, there is probably a simple solution. This will require facing reality and forsaking assumptions. It will mean an end to blaming and the beginning to praying. Because complex problems really do not always need complex solutions.

Father God,
Help me.
Give the insight I need to see how I can get through this, or help the ones I love to get through their problems.
Please give me wisdom and strength to walk and work with You.
May I become more like Christ to those around me and less like the person I’ve been.
I ask this in the Name of Your Only Begotten Son, Jesus the Christ,
Amen. 

Pastor Andrew

Thursday, 10 October 2013

The Art of Burden Bearing


OverwhelmedI don't want to burden you. If anything, I want to help you to become unburdened. Yet, there are some burdens you will not only have to bear, there are certain burdens that only you can bear - indeed, you need to bear them. And there are burdens still, that you will haveto share. In fact, being a follower of Christ will acquaint you with burdens like no other kind of life. As such, it will soon be discovered that, being a part of a Christian community will be your greatest chance of better bearing whatever burdens you are laden with.
Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.
Galatians 6:2
Christians are students of the art and science of burdens. We learn to carry them, help others with theirs, and how to share ours. But we also learn when to let others share their burdens with us and when this is not reasonable.
For each will have to bear his own load.
Galatians 6:5
burden bearerAfter two decades of pastoring where I have had the privilege of trying to help people apply the Gospel and their commitment to the centrality of Christ in their lives in all things, there have been times when I have carried many people's burdens. This has been both my pleasure and my duty. This is an application of Galatians 6:2. But where it has not been my pleasure and beyond my reasonable realms of duty has been where I am the only one bearing any burden. This is a violation of Galatians 6:5. There have been occasional times when I have fought harder to save a marriage than those in a failing marriage. I have had to learn a thing or two about the art of burden bearing.
If any believing woman has relatives who are widows, let her care for them. Let the church not be burdened, so that it may care for those who are truly widows.
First Timothy 5:16
There are necessary burdens that we must each bear. We generally call these responsibilities. Your capacity to be responsible is will determine your maturity (not the other way around). Mature people are responsible people. Responsible people seek for ways to solve the burdens they are laden with. This is why marriage is so wonderful for a young man because it provides the means and motivation to increase his capacity to bear responsibilities. Marriage is a wonderful burden, but it is not the only means for becoming a responsible burden bearer. Work is also a divinely ordained means to fulfil our God-given potential. Work may be paid or voluntary. It may be in a workplace, or it may in the home. We are created to work. Work is a necessary burden. It's not that responsible people work, it's that when people work they become responsible. It's taking on responsibilities that makes us responsible - not the other way around. For the believer, many of these responsibilities are daunting. Work, family, friends, bills, life, health, are all varying burdens that we bear. But the believer has learned that God is the Ultimate Burden Bearer who invites us to be "yoked" to Him.
¶ Cast your burden on the LORD,
and He will sustain you;
He will never permit
the righteous to be moved.

Psalm 55:22
"Come to Me," Jesus invited, "all you who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest - for My burden is light and My yoke is easy!" The believer never bears her burden alone. She is yoked to a strong Saviour. What burdens are you still carrying alone?
What a Friend we have in Jesus, all our sins and griefs to bear!
What a privilege to carry everything to God in prayer!
O what peace we often forfeit, O what needless pain we bear,
All because we do not carry everything to God in prayer.
 
Are we weak and heavy laden, cumbered with a load of care?
Precious Savior, still our refuge, take it to the Lord in prayer.
Do your friends despise, forsake you? Take it to the Lord in prayer!
In His arms He'll take and shield you; you will find a solace there.

Joseph Scriven, 1855
There are burdens we are forced to bear. These are often unwelcome burdens. But the Father ordains and then sustains. Then there are burdens we share. A loved one is afflicted. A brother in Christ is overcome. A sister in the Lord is overcome.
¶ Brothers, if anyone is caught in any transgression, you who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of gentleness. Keep watch on yourself, lest you too be tempted.
Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ
.
Galatians 6:1-2
In the Father's handAnd there are still burdens we look for. We are created to bear burdens. We may not agree or even like this truth. But we are burden-bearers. Those who go deeper into Christ discover the pain and pleasantness of sharing the Lord's burdens. Those who do only ever experience what I imagine is a fraction of a fraction of a fraction of the burden that the Creator Himself feels for His wayward children. There is a burden for the lost, the hurting, the rejected, and the abused that the fullness of which is only known to the Father. No human has the capacity to carry it. But each time we sit at the Father's feet we see it in His eyes, we sense it in His look, we hear it in His breath. We are deeply and profoundly moved by experiencing it. This glimpse of the Father's burden changes the way we look at people. It changes the way we view church. It also changes the way we view our other burdens.
And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.
Galatians 6:9
It has been said that when someone outside of the Kingdom goes through the burden of tragedy, the Father ordains the same tragedy for one of His children to show the world the difference. The world gets angry at its burdens. The world tries to drown its burdens. The world attempts to medicate, counsel, and shift its burdens. But the child of God carries - with the Father's help - those burdens He has ordained for us - and along the way we worship the One who Sustains, and seeks to reflect His greatness through, us. Rather than shirking your burdens, embrace them by giving them to Jesus who invites you to do so. Perhaps you have been carrying the burdens of others as well as your own? There comes a point when Galatians 6:5 must follow Galatians 6:1-2. But perhaps you have only ever experienced Galatians 6:5 and have never entered into Galatians 6:1-2? God has placed within His Church those whom He has graced to dispense His grace for those who are burdened.
As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God's varied grace
First Peter 4:10
Ps. Andrew